Sometimes we can't see the magnitude of the things in our lives that we need to address, and subsequently change..... Until someone else shows us the imagery through their actions towards us. How important is it really for us to try to maintain the persona, our friends and family have created? To save face, not to appear weak, or Henpecked.
We Rebel....As to appear that we are strong. Truthfully!! I wanted to Indulge in my Pride, and my Ego..... And Get Mad.... Because on some level....I couldn't help but feel played. But No!! That would be so easy to do. We all have to take responsibility for our own actions...Or lack thereof. The Harsh Reality is: Had I become what was being mirrored back to me? OMG!! If this be the truth, I am in Desperate need of change. When reality slaps you in the face, you don't have to send out any Memos. When you know that change is required.... You Change!! Be the person that you hope to find.... Respect is never given... It's Earned. For the first time in a long time, Finally!! There was Clarity. When you can clearly see the complete picture. You can see what has been fractured, or broken. A wise man once said, Once your eyes are opened, there is no way to go back to pretending that you don't see.
Stay mindful that everyone will not be Happy, that you are Happy. Even though they smile in your face when they are talking to you. Put forth a Real effort to try and please the people in your life who tries to go out of their way to make you smile. Don't try to play pretty for the people.... Trying to be a People Pleaser.!! Don't be an Ass Kisser... You are never Clear on what side of the street that you are standing on. You seem to be cool with however the pendulum may swing. That's a dangerous stance, because you bare no Allegiance to Anyone, or Anything. Whatever is cool at the moment, You are cool with it. Trying to be a People Pleaser!!
The crazy thing is the people that you want to try to Impress, Already silently wished they were in your shoes. They laugh at you behind your back, Saying to themselves that you are not as smart as you look. You already have the ball, and don't know it. So they will just sit back and watch you fumble it. You will be surprised to know how many people, like your so called friends truly would be amazed how you are too blind to see what is right in front of your eyes. You will never know what True Happiness is..... Trying to appease the public. Trying to be a People Pleaser...