The White Picket Fence.....Is it just a well known Metaphor? A Subliminal thought that You have Manifested in your Mind. To help Nurture, and Support what You have created in your Dreams?
The White Picket Fence..... What Does it Truly Signify? The coming together of Two People who have decided that they want to share their lives together. Two Souls who are willing to try and build together and stick it out through thick and thin. That is An Admirable, Commendable Trait!!!! OR is it just Two Ordinary People who have... GOOD INTENTIONS!!! Without Moving with Direct Intention... GOOD INTENTIONS....Are just GOOD INTENTIONS!!! Just like OPINIONS, and A A Hole, Everyone In the World has Them.
OR Is it Something that goes much Deeper than that? Some People are more in Love, and Engrossed in the Illusion of being in Love. There are many People in this World Who would swear that they are Married to, Or in A Serious Relationship with their Other Half... But they seem to have Fallen in Love with the Idea of Marriage, OR being in Committed Relationship. They Project The Joy was in The Wedding, All the Bell and Whistles!!! OR just the Ability to Say that You are with So and So.... Anyone Beats being By Yourself. The Headache is Now in the Marriage.... And the Relationship is Not the way that IT use to be...The Novelty has worn off!!!
They are More Concerned, Almost Obsessed, With how it looks to the People on the Outside. Doing Their best to hide the Shame the Internal Knowing.... That this is Broken from the Inside Out. Many People Choose to live in Denial... Trying to keep Their Fronts Polished!!!
The White Picket Fence..... So Many People in the World have risked their Everything on the Hope that they One Day would Experience the The American Dream.... Along with The White Picket Fence... Whatever that May mean to You in your life. IT Does Not, Always have to be about Personal Relationships. It Serves for Any Area in Your Life Where the Truth is Not being Told!!!! But Generally It Is!! Only to be Sold A Dream.... And Crap Out!!!
Does The White Picket Fence.... Even Exist? Some People will tell You that it does, but You must work at it. It Requires A Team Effort!! Two People who are On the same page at the same time. Sadly, that rarely happens in life. I Did Not Say Never.....It is Not the Norm!! There will always be The One more Invested out of The Two, Of What they believed that the Outcome would be. Sometimes it can work out in Your Favor, and Unfortunately Sometimes it does not. Yes, You have to be willing to put in the work, For what it is that You say that You want. The Rules of Engagement should be Crystal Clear.... When IT Fits...It Does Not have to be Forced!!!!
Some People do not know how to handle the Letdown, The Heartache and the Disappointment. So they take matters into their own Hands, They Try to Rewrite the Story, Even if they have to Add Additional Characters to change the Narrative of their Storyline. Some People can't be told Anything.... They will have to Hit Rock Bottom. They are Determined to have their Happy Ending....At All Cost!!! Even when they know that they are Living A Big Ass Lie!!! You are Outsourcing Your Own Energy and Self Worth.
Have You Adapted to the Mindset.... When Life gives You Lemons.... Make Lemonade? Yes... That is A Very Powerful Quote, Very Inspiring and Uplifting.... But IT Does Not Apply to Everything in life. Some Things You just need to Let Go. No One is Making A Fool out of You.... Although They May have Tried.... But When You are helping them... IT is You that is making A Fool out of You!!!
The White Picket Fence....Is It An Entrapment? A Blessing? OR A Lesson? Is it Possible that It is All Three? Depending Upon Your Own Intentions and Perspective? Is Your Happiness Predicated on what Someone else does? OR Does Not do? That is just Another Form of Codependency!!! Are You even Aware that You Require that kind of Adult Supervision and Validation from An Outside Source.... Other Then The Most High GOD... And You!!!!?
A Word to The Wise.... You Need to get A Hold of Yourself... That is Very Dangerous!!! You Should love Yourself more than that!!!!
The White Picket Fence.... Does It Inspire You, and Motivate You to Grow? OR Does it keep You bound to A Dream that You refuse to let Die? Is It because Starting Over, Sometimes Is Just Too Painful?
In spite Of The Pain, You must be willing to Ask Yourself, What Is It about You that Even You Do Not like..... That makes You So Afraid to be Alone? Even just for A little while.... When You know that Is What Is Best...In order for you to Heal!!! Just Something For You to Ponder On!!!
"The White Picket Fence"
By Jaki....
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