The Redefining Of You..... How did you get to where you are today? Do you recognize your current surroundings? Even the People that you use to coexist with... Their names, and faces, has changed. You no longer seem to share even Simple Common Interests. IT isn't Personal, You can Innately feel the change. You no longer have anything in Common with those Folks. Something Significant inside of You is very Different.... You've Changed!!!
The Redefining Of You..... Are Your Current Circumstances of Your Own Volition? OR is it simply A Feeling of being Catapulted into A New Way of life, That You don't feel like You were quite ready for? What use to make you laugh, Has now made You Cry. What use to make You Cry... Now allows You the ability to laugh. Isn't It Funny how life can suddenly change?
The Redefining Of You..... Anyone Who has ever found themselves on the side of the Spectrum of Heartbreak, Loss, and Disappointment. They know exactly what it is that I am talking about. Pain and Disappointment has a way of turning Your Life as You know it Completely Upside down. The Balance and Steadfast Equilibrium that use to Uphold You was a part of A Solid Foundation that You were Solely Dependent Upon. Has now Drastically Changed, It feels like the Rug has been pulled right from under Your Feet. You seem to Struggle to find the Inner Balance that Proudly Defined Who You are. Family, I need You to realize that What happens to You.... Does Not Define Who You are!!! How You React and Respond.... Does!!!!
The Redefining Of You.....No One would really believe Me when I say, There Really is A Rainbow after the Storm. You just have to be Willing to Try and Find It. Many Would Not, Because the Truth Is, When You are going through Pure Hell.... What I Am Saying sounds like Wishful Thinking at its best. OR is it just easy for Someone else to say?.... Until they have to walk A Mile in your Shoes. You are Pretty Sure that their Outlook would be Completely Different.
The Redefining Of You..... You would be Right.... To A Point!!! No, Not Everyone could Endure and Survive, The Challenges in life that You have had to Face. Your Journey is Not for the Weak....OR the Faint of Heart. The Truth Is, No One really knows how they are going to come out on the other side. When You are going through the Redefining Process....IT Can and Will be Very Painful. IT is A Complete Transformation!!! You just know that You are going to come out of this, Come Hell OR High Water.... And Whatever is left after All of The Smoke Clears... Is More than Enough to Rebuild Again. Abstract Pictures....Tell Beautiful Stories.... Pain and All!!!
The Redefining Of You.....Is Not just about Disappointment, Heartache, and Pain. Although, Most of the time, Those are the Catalysts that The Most High GOD will use to get Your Undivided Attention. Some People often wonder why such Harsh Tactics are Necessary. Well, In All Honesty, We may never know the Truth. We Must Believe, The Most High GOD will Never Put more on Us then We can Stand to Bare. He knows Exactly When and Where to Apply Pressure.... To Get His Desired Results!!!
The Redefining Of You..... When You look back on All of the things that You have Survived in Your life. Some Things were very Painful, Maybe even Unfair, OR just Plain Outright Unjust, To say the least. Some Lessons in life, You will never Forget. Good, Bad, OR Indifferent, A lot of lifes Lessons help to Cultivate Who You are today, So they Served their Intended Purpose. They Did Not kill You, OR take You Under, OR Swallow You Whole, As You believed at that moment that they would. They Enabled You to Grow!!!
The Redefining Of You..... You actually Discovered A Hidden Strength about Yourself by Accident, That You didn't even know that You had. Your Determination and Resilience to Never Give Up, Even when the Pressures of life seems to become A Bit too Overwhelming. You Did Not Fold, You learned to Tie A Knot in the Rope.... And Hold On Tight!!! In Your Resilience to Never Quit, OR Give Up... Unbeknownst to You.... The Survivor in You was Born!!! The Man Or Woman, Staring back at You in the Mirror....Came at A Very Hefty Price. Treasure Your Investment!!!
The Redefining Of You.....There are Many Different Parts of Our Personalities, That makes Us Who We are. You will Always be Tearing Away at Yourself, Until You Come Full Circle. What We will All Discover about Ourselves on Our Journey in life....Was Always there....We just have to Come to Terms with it Ourselves...To Accept It!!! Life just Chips away the Rough Edges...So that We can Finally See It.
The Redefining Of You.... Can be Equivalent to being on The Spin Cycle. Blowing Up the Spot....Is Not Always just A Slick-Catchy Phrase, That sounds good to say. Sometimes, Sadly it is Some Peoples Reality. Everything in their lives blew up right before their very Eyes, Being left with No Real Sense of Direction.
The Redefining Of You.... What looked and felt like the End....Was Actually the Beginning of The New Version of Yourself Emerging, That You were just about to have the Pleasure to meet. Remember.... Everything Happens for A Reason. Although We Might Not Always Understand It..... Take Solace In the Knowing.... IT Is Never Without Purpose!!!
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"The Redefining Of You"
                                             BY Jaki...
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