There comes a time in our lives when we come to the understanding that you have to make a Choice for your life. It may not necessarily be the choice that you want to make. You realize just how much you have grown, in your ability to do what is right, even though your heart aches against it. You come to understand, and accept that everything good to you, doesn't make it good for you.
Some people, places, and things in your life are meant to be blessings, or lessons. They're both designed to invoke understanding, and change. You must always use discernment. There is still good in the world.... That is so...... To remind us not to lose faith. Remember!! You will always get what you give. Equal give and take (Reciprocity). What goes around comes around. It is a true sign of growth, when you discover that the only person that you can control....Is You!! That Definitely comes with its own challenges. With so many different facids of ones personality, there is so much to discover about ourselves to allow our focal point to be to ensure that someone else is growing. Someone else's journey is not yours, the challenges, or the rewards will not be the same.
If you are fortunate (The Most High) sees fit to bless you with someone who compliments you, inspire you, challenges you to be the best version of yourself. Versus the choices we often choose for ourselves. Instant Gratification..... Not having the ability to see past what you want. As the Old Folks use to say,; Trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. Only leads to disappointment, and a sense of unfulfillment. In living life, you come to understand that certain people, certain situations were fated to unfold throughout the course of your lifetime. No matter how challenging sometimes may have been, without certain encounters (Romantic) Even the heartbreaks, Everything happens for a reason.
Every challenge was defining your character, although it was painful, you would have never discovered your Inner strength, your capacity to love. To follow the journey of discovering what you Need, and not Settling just for what you want. Instant Gratification...... TAKES COURAGE!!! You realize just how much you have grown, and have come full circle. It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman, the principal is the same. Sometimes, the very thing that we hold on the tightest to, be the very thing that God is trying to show us that it is time to let go of. He has something phenomenal in store for you. Out with the old. In with the New.
Are we strong enough to reach for our dreams? Even when you cannot see them. That is the question!!! Everything we've gone through in life, makes us who we are. Or will you stay stuck in comfortability? Simply because that is what you are use to.
Change is never easy, and it hurts to Grow. In any area of your life being 'stretched and pulled " can be very uncomfortable..... But Necessary. An essential part of your growth, there are different chapters in life. If you can Understand, and Accept that Isolation often times is very much needed in all of our lives. Some of the Most Defining moments of Growth happens in the darkness. When you are alone, and you can clearly hear your spirit speak. Often times we are put in tight spots, because of our Refusal,or Reluctance to Grow.
Change is Eminent. By;JAKI.